Truth is that I spend ~80% of my time playing electric unplugged. I concentrate on the instrument.
I don't do that much day to day but I always do that when I am checking out a new guitar. I like to sit with it unplugged and get a sense of how it plays and feels without an amp distracting me. It bugs the crap out of me when a salesman walks up and says "You can plug that in if you want" like I hadn't already figured that out.
I'm gonna go with the folks who have said that the Kemper may not be a great choice for the OP. He has already put substantially more legwork into this than I would have early on. I traded my Boogie JP-2C for a Kemper powered toaster, remote and bag about four years ago. Tried it with the factory profiles through a 4x12 guitar cab and said "Well, I can get my money back out of it". Went online and bought a few commercial profile packs (MBritt) and said "This has potential". Bought a Yamaha DXR10 and I was hooked. Bought another DXR10 a week later to provide a wider sound sound stage (I was used to a Soldano Hot Rod 50 and two Soldano 4x12 cabs) and four years later the honeymoon continues.
No one piece of gear is right for everyone. It may be time to move on. I am in awe of your tenacity with this. It far exceeds anything I am capable of.